God created us with the potential benefit (conscience) and vices (ego). Our task then was guided by the prophets, great men, and good leaders are good is to optimize the potential and minimize the potential for evil. It eroded the negativity is not an easy matter. Difficult in fact. He involves recognizing and controlling the smart incredible ego.
Difficult, but must be done. Why? Because if not, the difficulty will be higher. And it certainly makes us a little more just in front of that negativity. Then will come the time when the potential benefit of us dying. So at this time, desperation ensued. We are desperate to actually intend to be negative. When this happens, our differences with the devil too-thin breath.
Before that happens, the negativity becomes important to scrape was done continuously. Then do the steps right with sufficient quantities. So the negativity that had bound us as: lazy, procrastinate, lie, smoking, gambling, liquor, drug pornography, drugs, anger, sadness exaggeration, arrogance, corruption, and so will be eroded.
I chose the five steps in this regard:
1. Firm intention
Everything starts from the intention was not it? And all actions where the value is in its intention. Then build a strong intention to continue to erode away negativity. My firm intention to make the formula as follows: firm intention = Desire * * Readiness Readiness for Learning to face the problem of any kind.
Firm intention of this formula consists of three issues. And associated with signs of multiplication, not addition. It means three things must exist. If one does not exist (zero), because the formula is multiplied, then the auto-zero value is also his intention.
2. Detailed and clear decision
Intention must be improved so detailed and clear decisions. Without this, the intention would be to float. Decision detail these are:
· Negativity what will be erased?
° make drastic changes (and change) or gradual (gradual)?
· List detail and a clear action.
Negative people · Where are we going to leave?
· Negative situation where the negativity in supporting us?
· Negativity supporting tools which will we waste?
· When will all this be done?
3. Removing the Secondary Enjoyment
Why are we doing negative things until those things become habit? Because we feel any pleasure. That was a secondary pleasure. In the primary we know it is wrong and negative. But that action also give pleasure. Well, because this pleasure is that we do. Then realize that the enjoyment was just a secondary character. That is, there are primary enjoyment. Smoking was delicious. If the intent had been determined to quit smoking, then start does not want the secondary pleasure. Want to quit primary enjoyment. Feel pleasure when you succeed do not be tempted to smoke. Wuah, lho ... it was delicious pleasure that comes from a sense of power over your own self.
4. Doing positive things
Not doing negative things is not enough. Usually not durable. Then you need to do something positive. To replace the void left by the negative stuff. Some time ago, I was too much TV. To remove, I do the steps. I intend to fast. I made the decision detailed and clear. I hate secondary pleasure. And I watch TV to replace the time to do positive things. Main bike. Reading. Write a book. Play with the children. And so forth.
It deals with the nerves in our brains. A termination of the relationship between the nerve cells will be permanent if the new relationship is formed. The affair will be truly ended, when the affair was terminated and build healthy and loving relationship with your spouse (husband / wife) we are legitimate. If only decide the affair without having to build a healthy and loving relationship, then the relationship will be formed again affair again. Is the affair of the old or the new.
5. Do the things Productive
This step is important so that changes and we are consistently good. Productively with a positive difference. Productive definitely positive. Positive but not necessarily productive. Every morning I was among the children to school. It was positive. But it was not productive. Make a note on facebook positive. been productive? Uncertain. And the fifth principle is important. Progress comes from productive activities. But productive activities could we can not do when positive events are too active.
Hopefully useful ... yes friends
Please pray our leaders.
In order to create a positive and productive policy for the poor.
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